A coworker of mine just found himself in a terrible situation. He was chatting with someone online, and now they’re threatening to share private messages unless he pays them. He’s completely panicked and unsure what to do next. I told him not to give in, but he’s scared of what might happen if he ignores them. Has anyone dealt with something like this before? What’s the safest way to handle it without making things worse?
Situations like this can feel overwhelming, but there are clear steps to take. Paying the blackmailer will only lead to more demands, so avoiding any further communication is essential. Instead, every single message and threat should be documented. Reporting the incident is the best course of action, and there’s a guide that explains exactly how to do that here: https://www.vajiracoop.com/forum/topic/2280/reporting-internet-blackmail:-what-you-need-to-know. It walks through the process of reporting to the right authorities and securing personal data. The sooner your coworker takes action, the better chance he has of stopping the blackmailer.
Hearing about cases like this makes you realize how careful people need to be online. It’s a scary situation, but knowing there are proper steps to take can make a big difference. Hope your coworker gets through this without too much stress.